Hey everyone,
Having Hudson is a great excuse to spend some time on this blog. I have to remind myself not to focus too much on Hudson. One of the pieces of advice I picked up before Nicole deliverd was for the parents to take time for themselves, and for each other, because it is really easy to focus all your time and energy on your new child and forget about yourself.
So...putting that into practice, I will be writing about my and our life in this entry. Yes...more boring text for those who like pictures. However, this blog actually has been somewhat of a journal for me, and its entertaining to go back and read my previous entries. I'm quite proud that it started back in 2005!
Life has been really good. Nicole and I are doing quite well, and really lucky that our parents have been so involved and helpful. Nicole's mom and aunt were here before Hudson's birth and first week of life, and then my mom came for the next 3 weeks and took the night shift - which helped Nicole and I SLEEP! Hudson is now on a formula that agrees with his GI system, so he doesn't fuss or cry much. He does have reflux, but we have added a tiny bit of rice cereal to his bottle, so now he seems less refluxy and more satisfied. He now eats and sleeps predicatably, which is the best thing a newborn can be - predictable!
Nicole and I are now relearning life and trying to fit in the time to take care of ourselves. After 6 weeks, Nicole is cleared for normal exercise again, so she can return to running, swimming, and working out. She's scheduled for a triathalon in October! I haven't touched a weight in months, and I've gained a little weight (never thought that would happen to me), so I need to get back in shape myself. We're going to try and do some 'date nights' and keep the sparks going (hee hee), and we have a wonderful nanny who I hope will babysit for us.
As far as work, my tenure as chief resident is going well so far. I really enjoy the job I have, where I can place a big responsibility on teaching. I love teaching - it forces me to prepare and study medicine topics, and I feel like I have a pretty good ability to explain things to others and have them buy into it. Teaching sessions for residents and students seem to have gone well so far - topics such as diagnostic calculations in evidence based medicine, urines and smears, hyponatremia, and acid/base/electrolyte disorders are examples. I've had the chance to attend in resident's clinic, which I find challenging since clinic medicine is probably my weakest field. I've also had the chance to "moonlight" as an inpatient doctor, admitting and taking care of patients in the hospital, which gives me the chance to get back to direct patient care - which is why I went into this field in the first place! The administrative part of the job, running the day to day concerns of the residency, is ok. Not the most glamourous - a lot of emails and meetings - but in doing so we take care of the residents and make sure they're on the right track, which is rewarding in the grand scheme.
Our next major life event will be our upcoming move to Atlanta! I have matched for a spot at Emory for cardiology, and really excited about this. It will be hard to leave this area - the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill area has an awesome quality of life. Traffic is easy, living is cheap, the airport is nearby and not big but still international, people are nice, weather is great, and its nice and green here, and Nicole has a wonderful boss that she works with and we have some close friends we'll miss. We'll miss being a part of UNC - which I love, and I'll even encourage Hudson to come to college here! Emory was great, but UNC has this sense of camaraderie and school spirit, along with really great academics for a state school, that you can't really go wrong. Anyways, we'll be leaving all this behind, and going back to Atlanta for an equally wonderful, though totally different, experience. In Atlanta, we have some wonderful friends and family, a vibrant city with lots of flair, cuisine, arts and culture, and a medicine and cardiology training program that is among the top in the country. But, the traffic is daunting, the airport is far and crazy big, and houses are more expensive. But, for the next stage of our lives, our top 2 choices would have been Georgia or North Carolina. I don't know where we'll end up after all the training is finally over (4+ years from now). My guess is Georgia, NC, or back to Florida.
It's interesting to think about what I thought I would be doing at certain points...
Undergrad: premed vs meteorology
Medical school: primary care doctor and pole vault coach
Residency: gastroenterologist, then cardiology, possibly private practice
Chief Residency: cardiologist, probably academic cardiology in a University system, where I could be on faculty, teach, and see neat stuff, and hopefully have international opportunities to volunteer, then maybe retire to be a high school teacher and pole vault coach
Other updates on things going on:
- Nicole will be starting work in 2 weeks, working 1/2 time in the clinic, 1/2 time at home for another 6 weeks
- Amy is enjoying her internship with Air Products in Allentown, PA. She will be graduating from U of Florida with mechanical engineering, and right now weighing going to work vs going to grad school.
- Jenny, Tyler and Kaelyn are about to take Amtrak for the first time, to come up and visit for a long weekend!
- Ben Yin is on the hunt for a ridiculously cheap, luxuriously loaded house in intown Atlanta..right Ben?
- Amy and Nate just had their new baby, Sidney Montgomery York! Congratulations!
- Sarah and Alex are next! Along with Jason and Amy, who are pregnant with another!
- Dave's doing research this year, and he and Karen are moving to Tampa where he'll be an allergy/immunology fellow at USF next year
- Andy's bachelor party is August 15 in DC - I for one must control myself, as I will be taking my internal medicine boards 2 days later. Andy and Missy are getting married late September!
Everyone else who is reading this - fill me in!
Ok, need to feed Hudson...talk to you soon!